I do not have two granddaughters (sad I have to say that)…my daughter has given birth to two girls, by a man, involved in the crimes against me, WHO SHE CHOSE TO STAND BY, SO I LOST CONTACT WITH MY GRANDSONS WHO WERE A LARGE PART OF MY LIFE. That is totally different to me having two granddaughters. Unfortunately. Once your children are adults, you have to let them make their own choices.
I HAVE TWO GRANDSONS AND THAT IS IT. ONCE UPON A TIME I WOULD OF STOOD ON HIGHER GROUND AND SAID IT’S NOT THE CHILDRENS FAULT AND INCLUDED THEM AS MY GRANDDAUGHTERS. I DON’T NOW BECAUSE I HAVE REALISED YOU CAN BE TOO ACCEPTING AND KIND IN LIFE AND HAVE IT ALL THROWN BACK IN YOUR FACE. SO I’M NOT DOING IT ANYMORE. Plus the circumstances of this case, would make it too dangerous for me.
I’m over the loss of them now (it was over 4yrs ago) and thankfully due to my illness and temporal lobe damage, the loss was easier to cope with. I remember very little about them now, other than what they look like from photos and the relationship with them died the day my daughter said to me “You take ALL children together or NONE AT ALL” when she knew full well I was TOO ILL to have ALL children (I could not have even physically lifted one them who still needed lifting and is autistic) and it was DANGEROUS DUE TO MY DISABILITIES for me to be left alone with a new-born baby. BUT IT WASN’T ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN GRANDPARENT AND GRANDCHILDREN BEING MAINTAINED, AS IT SHOULD OF BEEN. SHE JUST WANTED A BABYSITTER. They’re not easy to come by, for four children, all in one hit!
I did however cancel taking my caravan to Sagunto in Spain (at a massive cost and loss to myself that I was never able to recoup) and dropped everything to be at his bedside so to speak (I got to see him for 15 precious minutes so it was worth it) the minute I knew he was ill (when there was nothing wrong with him) as any gran would.
Jay Eyres, just one of the many men involved in the crimes against me, children will NEVER be anything to do with me. EVER. Having them in my life, would give him access to my life. Not happening in a month of Sundays!
PERSONALLY I WANT AN INJUNCTION AGAINST THIS MAN AND MY DAUGHTER, DUE TO HER INVOLVEMENT WITH HIM BUT THE STATE HAVE BLOCKED ME FROM ALL LEGAL ACCESS. AN INJUNCTION AGAINST HIM AND HER WOULD HELP SPOIL THEIR FRAUD PLOT FOR THE MED NEG CASH.
My Great Gran would be horrified and turning in her grave knowing a child from such a disgraceful man, has been named after her! She would be utterly disgusted. She would also of cut contact with my daughter (if she were alive) just like I have, knowing she was involved with such a criminal who had carried out such disgusting actions AGAINST HER OWN MOTHER.
My daughter was so blinded by this mans lies and deceit…she even accused his ex-wife of doing things, DONE BY HIM.
Even when he broke into her home on the 20/04/2010 SHE STOOD BY HIM! I’ll bet police HAVE LOST HIS FINGERPRINTS/FOOTPRINT NOW.
SILLY GIRL IS NOW TIED TO THE SICK PERVERT FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE. EVEN IF THE RELATIONSHIP BREAKS DOWN. HENCE WHY HER AND MY GRANDSONS HAD TO BE EXCLUDED FROM MY WILL (literally everything will go to the Kaleidoscope Project in Kingston Upon Thames instead) AND MY DAUGHTER ALSO REMOVED FROM BEING MY NEXT OF KIN. SUCH A SHAME FOR HER AND MY GRANDSONS…but of her own choice and doing.
Oh and my grandsons HATE HIM FOR ALL THE ABUSE HE HAS PUT THEM THROUGH BECAUSE THE ELDEST CONFIDED IN ME. HE CANNOT STAND HIM AND I’M NOT SURPRISED. I’VE WATCHED THE MAN.
My handsome and eldest grandson went from a healthy, smiley, happy, confident lad to looking like a sad, starved Ethiopian with all his teeth turning yellow and falling out. He looked so ill, that doctors and the NHS thought he had lymphoma and rushed him straight from the doctors to hospital. I couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw him…it was heart breaking.
Months of TESTS, BIOPSIES AND IN DEPTH APPOINTMENTS SHOWED HE HAD NOTHING WRONG WITH HIM. HE LOOKED LIKE THAT BECAUSE HE WAS BEING ABUSED…and yet again my daughter STOOD BY HER MAN AND IGNORED HER SON WHO WAS DYING FROM MISERY ON THE INSIDE AND HER MOTHER.
I’m just glad he confided in me and told me of the threats, intimidation and psychological abuse (I can only hope that was all they endured)…although really that was pointless…because all I can do is WRITE ABOUT IT ONLINE TO ALERT OTHERS TO THE OFFICIALS WHO ALLOWED IT. Others including a full-grown man, also sat by watching the abuse, complaining about the abuse and saying it needed to be stopped AND DOING NOTHING ABOUT IT!
THE POLICE AND THAMES VALLEY HOUSING ASSOCIATION WERE MORE CONCERNED THAT THEIR EMPLOYEES CRIMES AND FRAUD WITH MY CASE WOULD BE DISCOVERED THAN A PSYCHOPATHIC STALKING RAPIST AND PEDOS ABUSING WOMEN, CHILDREN AND MEN.
I’m not allowed to report ANY CRIME because it will expose too much filth on the force and grime in housing and official circles…so my poor grandson just had to put up with the abuse AS DID LOTS OF OTHER CHILDREN. Like when my grandson caught him watching the illegal crime scene porn of me, illegally created by the rapist and crime gang and was told if he told his mum, he’d be punched through the wall. A comment threat often issued by a 6ft 4in controlling bully to a timid, sweet and lovely little lad. A lad who rarely does wrong. Poor lad…I’m sure he’ll thank the Thames Valley Police Force/Thames Valley Housing Association/Other criminals who couldn’t afford for their crimes with my case to be exposed so made sure I couldn’t report ANY CRIMES for that, when he’s old enough to understand his nanny tried to stop it for him BUT THEY ALLOWED IT TO KEEP THEIR OWN CRIMES AND FRAUD CONCEALED.
NOT ONLY ALLOWED IT, LEFT THE MAN DOING IT LIVING WITH THE CHILD HE WAS ABUSING, FOR THEIR OWN FINANCIAL GAIN AND COVER UPS THEY WERE INVOLVED IN, TO DO WITH MY MED NEG CASE. AS DID EVERYONE WHO WATCHED ME EXPOSING IT ALL ON MY FACEBOOK PAGE, AS I WASN’T ALLOWED TO OFFICIALLY REPORT THE CRIMES TO THE POLICE OR MAKE STATEMENTS EITHER.
A TRULY SHOCKING POLICE FORCE AND HOUSING ASSOCIATION…I’ve never known such abusive and dirty officials!
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